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Aria Vega's avatar

Great piece! This has been one of those moments that highlights for me how Black Americans are very much still Americans. Our reasoning can also be corrupted by noxious, individualist political frameworks even though we’re targeted by the country’s dominant ones. We’ve gotta be brave enough to confront that

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Ciara's avatar

I hear where you’re coming from, and I understand the angle, but I have to push back a bit. As one of those Black women who’s been saying exactly this, I think it’s more layered than what’s being presented here.

In my experience, choosing to “let them do it” and leaning into rest and preservation hasn’t meant abandoning our livelihoods—or our communities. Like you mentioned, in both my real life and online spaces, Black women are choosing rest, but we’re doing it intentionally. Not as a retreat, but as a form of resistance. We’re not walking away from the work—it’s just evolving.

Black women have long been the backbone of our families, our churches, our schools, and our movements. We’ve led while being tired, stretched thin, and often unacknowledged. So now, when we say “I’m part of the 92% y’all got it,” it’s not a betrayal of our liberation. It’s a survival strategy. It’s a different way of being committed. We’re not forsaking the fight—we’re choosing to fight differently.

I do agree with you, though, that our blind allegiance to the Democratic Party is something we need to interrogate and actively address.

We know the cost of not prioritizing our wellness, and we also know our wellbeing is collective liberation. So yes, we can afford to rest. In fact, we can’t afford not to.

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